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On Making Work Play

01 Saturday Sep 2018

Posted by AjmaniK in life and living, practice

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creativity, integration, play, work

The first Sunday of September is ‘celebrated’ as the ‘Labor Day’ weekend in the USA. It was the first ‘long weekend’ that I encountered when I first here for graduate school. I was intrigued by a holiday that had the word ‘labor’ in it, and I also wondered why they did not spell it with a ‘u’. Over the years, I learnt a bit more about this classic American weekend that marks the passage from summer into autumn.

But, back to ‘labor’. The word itself seems to carry a sense of ‘heaviness’ about it for me. It conjures a vision of coolies carrying suitcases on their heads at railway stations in India, ascending and descending staircases with a seeming ease that defies their wiry frames. As a child, I was always impressed by their superhuman strength, and often felt a bit guilty about the tough negotiations we would do for hiring them. In their work, they seemed like Atlas carrying the weight of their shoulders on their back.

However, we all well know that not all ‘labor’ is manual. In this day and age of technology, our labor is often defined by our ‘finger dexterity’, ‘mental organization’, ‘oral delivery’ and ‘visual acuity’. The ‘gentler’ connotation of ‘labor’ is simply ‘work’. And the even ‘gentler’ connotation of ‘work’ is often ‘play. And some of us have mastered the niche and cultivated the art of ‘making work play’. They are perhaps the enlightened creatives.

So, what is it that defines those masters of ‘making work play’? I imagine that we would have to know what the words ‘work’ and ‘play’ mean to us at an individual level. For simplicity sake, let us assume that ‘work’ leans toward ‘labor’ and ‘play’ leans towards ‘fun and recreation’. When ‘work’ and ‘play’ tilt away from each other, like the two arms of the letter V, they tend to pull us apart. When they come together, as in the letter I, we feel a sense of integration, of wholeness, of wholesomeness.

And then, there is notion of ‘duty’. For me, the word connotes an even ‘heavier’ form of work than ‘labor’. When it first appears to do its bidding, ‘duty’ tends to invoke resistance. It is often inconvenient, and tends to be demanding of what we may be unable or unwilling to give of – which is our sense of freedom. Friction results, sparks fly, unfamiliar words and thoughts and feelings emerge. Play becomes the farthest thing from our hearts and minds when we approach the work of our duty as a burden that has befallen us.

We need not despair, though. It is time for evaluation of our (spiritual) practices. Do they feel like burdens, or like play? It is self-reflection that reminds us of our capacity to love, and it is that love which ‘greases the tracks of duty’. When approached with love, we take the first step on the path (towards doing our duty at hand) with a renewed lightness of heart. This leads to a sense of vairagya (non-attachment to the results), which leads us back to freedom, and to the joy of play!

Love of work. Freedom through love. Play through Freedom. This is our work.

The result? We find ourselves in That ocean where all of our work is a wave of divine play – Leela.

We have come full circle to the center, where ‘labor’ has become weightless. It’s time to celebrate!

Kumud @AjmaniK

P.S. Join us Sunday, September 2nd at 9amET / 630pm India for our weekly community chat on twitter. We will work on ‘Making Work Play’ in #spiritchat – bring your game-boards and game-pieces!

Hydrangea blooms - Nature's PlayNature’s (handi)Work – or is it merely Play?!

Work As Gift Exchange by Leslie Carothers

28 Friday Aug 2015

Posted by AjmaniK in Uncategorized

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gifts, spirituality, work

Work As Gift Exchange, by Leslie Carothers, of @tkpleslie and @Messagesof_Hope.

We continue our weekly Sunday morning #SpiritChat conversations on Sunday, August 30th 2015 at 9amET/1pmUTC with our special guest, Leslie Carothers. Leslie will share with us as co-host, using the twitter handle of her latest project, @MessagesOf_Hope. A long time supporter of the weekly chat on twitter and the FB group, Leslie will discuss the subject of “Work as Gift Exchange” with all of us!. Please join in for what promises to be another beautiful ‘exchange’ in #SpiritChat. Do read and enjoy her very creative post below! – Kumud

“Hide not your talents, they for use were made. What’s a sundial in the shade?” ~ Benjamin Franklin

Spiritually, I’ve often thought of work as a gift exchange. A beautiful, flowing circle of energy between two people, equally valuing the gifts being exchanged. For one, it will be the gift of their time, their experience, their heart, their focus, their determination to do their best. For the other, it will be the gifting of their money and respect, for the one gifting them their time and experience.

The hard part for many people is identifying their true gifts and then putting a value on them that allows them to earn the living they would like to earn and need to earn to realize their dreams, while at the same time supporting the basic needs of their immedate family. Another difficult part for many people is communicating their gifts in a way that attracts their ideal gift recipient.

For the person with the money and the respect to gift, the difficult part is finding that person or company they can trust, that can solve their business or personal challenge, while at the same time being acknowledged and respected for how hard they’ve worked for their money.

Sometimes, the one with the money doesn’t respect the one with the gift of experience and when this happens, issues of control come up. What is control? Why does it appear? What’s at stake?

For the one with the money, who does value and respect the gifts of the one with the experience and time, a lovely flow begins to occur, as both sides realize that they need the other to form a complete circle that allows for the highest good of all concerned to emerge.

A term I’ve coined to make it easier to understand the idea of work as a gifting circle is #MONERGY. Money and energy are inextricably intertwined.

Think of it as magnetic filings. If you are clear on your gift, passionate about your gift and have communicated your gift clearly, you are like a #MONERGYMAGNET.

Clarity brings the circle together. The people with money to gift in exchange for the gift of time, experience, heart, energy, passion and focus are wanting to give it to you. They just need to find you, to feel you, to hear you to resonate with your values and to have a level of trust that you will respect their gifting to you of their money.

This Sunday, in #SpiritChat, let’s talk about our gifts and let’s celebrate and discuss the circle of MONERGY. Are you someone that has money to gift someone else to solve a business challenge or personal challenge for you? Or are you someone that has a special gift to give in exchange for money? A gift of your time, your experience, your heart, your energy, passion and focus? Or, are you both people? Most of us are both!

Let’s talk about mutual respect and win-win and what that means spiritually.

Let’s talk about trust.

Let’s talk about #TheButterflyEffect.

Please join in #SpiritChat this Sunday, August 30th at 9 am ET!

– Leslie

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Leslie Carothers, @tkpleslie, is a long time participant in #SpiritChat, and is the founder of The Kaleidoscope Partnership, a social media marketing agency focused on small busineses, with a special niche in the furniture and interior design industry. She is also the founder of #TheHopeBlog, on her site, http://messagesofhope.com, whose mission is to give hope a home by giving back, forever, to the charities you care most about.

Find her online at:

http://facebook.com/TheKaleidoscopePartnership 
http://twitter.com/tkpleslie 
http://instagram.com/tkpleslie 
http://google.com/+lesliecarothers 
http://google.com/+TheKaleidoscopePartnershipHouston 
http://linkedin.com/in/lesliecarothers

and

http://messagesofhope.com 
http://facebook.com/MessagesofHope1 
http://twitter.com/Messagesof_HOPE 
http://instagram.com/Messagesof_HOPE 
http://google.com/+MessagesofHopeHouston
and the Messages of Hope Community on Google+
https://plus.google.com/u/0/communities/109037153077030897586

Questions asked during the live chat hour. Links to twitter are at end of each Q.
Ready? Q1. When you think of “work as an exchange of gifts” what images and/or thoughts does this bring to you? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637974337258147840

Q2. What is the ‘secret of #work’ which makes it a #gift to ourselves and to others? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637976043224174592

Q3. Given a choice, what #work would you do for a ‘living’? For a ‘life’? Why? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637977595892604928

To gifts. Q4. What is your unique #gift? How do you tend to share it? Do you? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637979440836907008

Q5. How may one gain clarity about their unique #gift, if they don’t have clarity now? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637980967362240513

Q6. On #money… Could people with the gift of lots of money need your gifts? How so? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637982293576011776

Q7. Those who have the #gift of experience & wisdom… what fear(s) prevent them from sharing them with others? #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637983586315018241

Q8. From a spiritual perspective, what can we learn about fairness and equity from a ‘gift exchange’ #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637984705514729472

Q9. Time for a gift exchange. How can find out more about your unique gifts? Your work? Do share 🙂 #SpiritChat https://twitter.com/ajmanik/status/637986396628754432

Spiritual Work and Wealth

27 Saturday Jun 2015

Posted by AjmaniK in Uncategorized

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prosperity, spiritchat, spirituality, wealth, work

The final Sunday of the month tends to bring about a sense of reflection, a sense of self-evaluation on the events of the weeks gone by. It also tends to bring a sense of anticipation, of expectation, of looking ahead to the month to come, and the work that remains to be done. But this sense of reflection does not need to just belong to months and weeks… we can coalesce the sense of time into days, then hours, then minutes, and then moments.

The awareness of the moment is perhaps the greatest “work” that remains before us. This has been very beautifully elucidated by Pema Chodron in her book, Living Beautifully (with Uncertainty and Change). I had bought this book a few months, maybe a year ago ~ I don’t exactly remember, and it doesn’t really matter. As is my wont with new and shiny books, I read it for a bit, maybe a few pages, but the “timing” for a deep dive wasn’t really right. And so it sat in one of my many bookcases, with all my other books to be read at the “right” time.

“You can buy as many books as you want… but you will only read the ones you are supposed to!” – Swami Vivekananda

The time arrived earlier this week, as Pema Chodron invited me back to “Living Beautifully”. And so, the “work” began in earnest, in the form of three steps… to “be present”, to “feel your heart”, to “engage the next moment without an agenda”. These three steps, referred to as commitments, are designed to create awareness, opennness and engagement. The practice of these, at a level beyond the mental, may seem like a lot of “work” at the outset. But we are all engaged in some kind of work, so why not engage in “work” that will produce (spiritual) “wealth” for us?

What is this “wealth” that the work of the first commitment, awareness, can produce for us? When we pause, take a step away from the opposites of hope and fear, we can learn to be “in the flow” of awareness. Osho refers to it as “observing the observer”, or just being. For that matter, we can pick any pair of opposites that tend to define our lives – success and failure, pleasure and pain, happiness and sadness, and so on. The work of awareness can give us freedom from our clinging to these opposites of life. We gain the wealth that comes from saying to ourselves, to those around us, and to the universe. Here I am. No labels. No judgements. No past or present. Just me.

The second commitment, feeling the heart, flows from the “Here I am” awareness. The “work” in this step is to open our inner self, our heart and spirit, to those around us. We open our heart to feel the light of their consciousness. We open ourselves to their joy, their pain, their needs – it is the work of compassion. Of course, when we do this “heart work”, we take a chance that we will perhaps open too much, or open to those who don’t “deserve” to be open to, or those who have intent to cause hurt and harm to us. That is where awareness, the first step, comes into play. We need not abandon our awareness when feeling the heart. We do the heart work gently, in layers, like the gradual opening of a flower in bloom.

Pema Chodron Three Steps

Does the flower that comes into bloom, even for a very short time, have an engagement agenda? The third commitment, engaging the moment without agenda, is perhaps the epitome of “work”. When we master the first and second steps, we are perhaps two-thirds of the way “there”. Or maybe only halfway there to the attainment of true, lasting wealth. I guess the measure of our “progress” depends on our starting point. Some of us may need a lot more “work” to master the first two steps, before we can do useful work to engage without agenda. This step reminds me of the Indian philosophical exhortation ~ “work without motive, without being attached to the fruits of your labors”. It’s a tough hill to climb, for even the most advanced of spiritual workers!

It is not to imply that the pot of gold at the end of the “engage the moment without agenda” rainbow is not worth working towards. Far from it. Because engagement is about love. And love cannot lose. When we know, in the core of our being, the nature of love, then work and wealth and love become synonymous. It is a meeting of the two banks of the river, with the middle of the stream, where all presence, heart, and engagement flow in harmony.

I appreciate you spending a few moments in awareness here. Be well. Just Be.

Kumud

Join us in #SpiritChat on twitter, Sunday June 28th at 9amET/1pmUTC where we will discuss the ideas of Spiritual Work and Wealth. Bring your sunshine, or rain, and if you bring both, who knows, we may spot a rainbow or two! In closing, “I wish the deepest of well being – Pema Chodron”. Namaste.

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